Forum:A shot in the dark

I am wiki illiterate so I hope this post works. Will attempt to get to the point of this post. First of all, I love playing borderlands but mostly play single player due to my percieved chaos of online play. Seems that the random online games that I join basicly involves a race to the next chest to loot or the next villan to kill. A lot of jumping and no teamwork at all. I know there are teams out there that work together, share loot, and advance accordingly in their games. If what I just described in the last sentence repulses you, then by all means stop reading this thread. What I need help with is how do I find a team(s) that are into a more methodical method of playing borderlands ie planing ambushes, using crossfires, sharing loot ect...  I'm not a modder, don't believe it to be at all challenging game wise to use artificial weapons, backpack inhancements ect...  However I must admit that I have done the DLC 3 armory loot glitch. I'm an older player and admittedly likes to play at a slower pace. I have a hunter, soldier, and a siren at level 61 but would not be opposed to starting over with a team(s) of similar mindsets.